Minggu, 02 Juni 2013

SUPER MOM. Is it exist?

I heard about Super Mom several times and sometimes I said or wrote it without any confident of what is it mean.

What creature is a SUPER MOM?
What I know is that Super Mom is an almost perfect mother who does her routine while taking care of her kids without any crucial problem. Event if there is a problem, she can handle it wisely and then continue her job as a mother, wife, employee or enterpreneur maybe.

Can I be a SUPER MOM?
This is a tricky question. 
I am a mother of one daughter, a wife and employee at the same time. I spend my day mostly at my office doing the thing which is not my passion actually. Normally I go to office at 07:45 in the morning and in average arrive at home at seven or eight in the evening.

I left my daughter with baby sitter. She is a nice woman, younger 10 years than me, but quite good in accompany my kid. Not perfect, but still ok. She make a meal my my daughter; for breakfast, lunch and dinner, washing my daughter shirt, playing, coloring and watching movies together. She also took my daughter to preschool once during a weekday. She teach her some vocabulary, singing, praying and all other activity.

When I go to office, normally my daughter just wake up from bed. And when I go home, she just finished her dinner and watching movies or playing. At nine, we took her for sleeping preparation : washing hand and foot, brushing teeth, wear a pijama and bring her to her bed room. Btw, she sleep with me and my husband actually, in the same bed. Before she fall asleep, normally she play a little bit on the bed, jumping or singging and watching movies. she took her milk while holding and make a twirll on my hair and asking me to make a story about pooh. Then I ask her to pray and then turn off the lamp. I fall asleep with her besides me.

On weekend, we spend time together. All day.
Making breakfast in the morning then hanging around at mall or go to church on Sunday (while nanny accompany her during Sunday school). Sometimes we just having a leasure time at home; watching movies or playing together. Sometimes I take her to bathroom or even take a bath together, brushing her teeth, playing bubbles. I also take her to a nap while watching movies or reading a book or hold her while she is sleeping in the car.

That's the routine... so, most of my daughter time were spending with her nanny, but she spend sleeping time with me.

Am I a Super Mom..? I don't have an answer...  
But, as most of mommy in the world, I just try to give the best to our child while keep my mind open for other reality.

That's LIFE